Significance & Security (S&S)

One of the coolest things I've got to learn about Michelle Obama and Barack Obama is when he explained about their first date. With such swagger he talked about how he picked her up or I think she may have been saying it lol. But how he picked her up on their first date, he's car i think had a hole somewhere in the bottom it was rusty etc. But the point is that, it was about the finical state they were both in, it was about the love they both carried & gave each other. I mean seriously yet we are unsure of what they truly go through in life together, as all true relationships are to be confided within one another. But from the start, middle, to still going, they way they dress, symbolize their kids, themselves and, touch grounds on society now, but the younger generation at the most. Why? Because they know the truth. My generation is the truth, the generations below us are the truth, my child his generation is the truth, their daughters are the truth of the future.

 They've already set their grounds, made their goals attainable, focused on what needs to be done, I think it's much rather cool how they're more focused on the younger generation. The first Presidency I've seen or witness or heard of mainly doing so. From attacking what, us as individuals are going through in our college, adults years, even high school are going through job wise increasing private sector jobs. Yeah they're private sector but yes, they're suppose to be challenging to push you to go to college, get that, degree and innovate through life what God he blessed you with to do. So yes discerningly speaking a person, that, thinks that, this is going to be easy to make money or get a job needs to realize it's going to be tough! But all you have to do is work smart.

Now look at them both, their level of significance and security. Is that, not what a man and woman want? Now not every man or woman will make it to be President and First Lady but I mean there a ways to give each other both this. I mean the first thing it starts with is Love and that's it. How the rest occurs really becomes up to you two. Remember that, as men and women coming from not very wealthy families, going to college, graduating, having kids, being individuals it's a both way street of empathy. You have to embrace this within one another. Be patient and, really think, "how will we do this because i know it will be done?"

Now just take a second, and, ask yourself, 3 years ago what were you doing? If you see the same results from three years ago you see now, it's time to upgrade them and understand yourself a little bit more. I've had people tell me "Paris your post are so long." You know what my honest to God answer in my mind is to these people who are far to lazy to take 10 minutes out of their day to get the message is? I really don't care what you think because you're obviously telling me your not ready to learn more about life. Your content with doing wrong, not educating yourself, learning what's best for you and most important, learning what someone from your generation knows that, you have no idea about. What is Facebook to you? For some it's a party, a way to express idiocy, for me it's entertaining and a way to quickly but vastly speak my mind when no one is around to listen. You ought to use it for the same thing, but in your own good professing creative way. How do you think I am still climbing to the top over the top? Because I am willing to do it the right way.



So remember something, it's not you forgot about the people you grew up or hung with in life. It's not about the fact you're not able to be with your actual friends a little more. it's about your future, your future family, you, the future generations to come and, most important that, you've left behind those that, CHOSE to stay behind being content with their lives. While you on the other hand, put in possible blood, a whole lot of sweat, held back tears, worked through frustration to realize what you want and need is more important than those that, chose not to climb up with you, thinking they'd just leach off of you.

#LoveSuccess ~ #ParisDWhite ~ #SevenStarGV

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"Black People Are..."

        Black ppl are judged by the color of our skin. The things we like on social media. The conversations we carry amongst others in public or on social media. The things we post on social media. The obscene actions we make. The activities we perform in public. The actions we make towards one another. The words we harmfully say about each other in music. The thoughts we never share about something that can help someone because we're afraid of the outcome or think we may know what will occur. Sometimes we just feel as though it's not black to do that. It's these things why black people are judged as unintelligent, rude, ill-mannered, uneducated, gangster or thugs. In other words, individuals that won't make it no where farther then their neighborhood in life. Sad isn't it? Yet still we find ways to create ways to make it out of the neighborhoods. 

Either illegally or legally. But most are looked upon the illegally side of it. Why is this some sort of foundation that we are always opposed to and never froze to? Who In this world said this is something that I wanted to be chose to? Cause I want to look that person in the face and ask them, why? Why are you trying to determine my life thru outlandish lies, why? When I was five to these facts I was color blind but to these facts I was already a factor of it to many others minds and y'all ain't even know what I was going to do with my life yet. There's no way that you think your just going to pull and drag me down this same line of generations that aren't even mines. Fine I'm not saying I'm perfect and never committed a crime but I've seen a partial amount of that side and I must say I am back to the side where I started. Yes, I went to a Catholic school so what is that not black? I wore slacks, shined my dress shoes, wore my socks up to my calves, had my tie on around my white collar and did it for three years plus due to transfers of different school but we ain't going to get into all of that which is eventually due. Then it was the moment of coming home I realized how much I was in a war zone with my own skin color. 

Mom raised me right even though I made choices but I'll always remembers those voices of mockery due to the clothes I wore for school compared to the clothes they wore for school. They thought I was thinking I was better than them. Mom wanted me to stay inside and be educated, I wanted to go outside and be like the other young black kids but they were also hanging around other black guys who were my age now at that time and wasn't doing nothing with their lives. Even in result the only time I learned to smile was when I laughed outside, you had to have a mean mug on to let it be known your a tough guy. Now that's common with all races and plenty faces. But we know a smile makes everything much more gracious and spacious for all the good that's being patient waiting for our faces. Although we were never taught to smile and that makes me say wow, how?

 Cause everyone else was willing to frown around, so that's all we ever seen around. We're not use to hearing much about a friend actually having both of their biological parents in their life so when we do we figure something's wrong with that, or envy was brought upon that child silently cause they all thought he or she will think they're better than everyone else. Because that child goes home to see both of their parents while the other goes home to a single parent. Compared to now sometimes it's even much worse than that. Drinking and smoking in front of kids for their whole lives that they live. Everyday & night, damn! How do you take care of your kids? Especially when you turning up every weekend celebrating your about to be broke again saying this is your way to relieve stress but you got a kid that can do that for you the best. Then you post on Instagram or Twitter or Facebook or one of the video medias about your time. If you looked back and didn't know yourself, where is your minds age level at? What exactly will you say about yourself? Why is that?

 Why is this so for black people not just in my city but every single where we can go and black people are there for sure? Why? And pardon my slang that may seem to niggerish for my intelligence they'll say, but hey I like to seem cool as well as not seem like no fool, is that cool with you? Worse thing is that black people are now judging black people, based on their options when they choose. Before when we dressed like the white boys do because it was professional and cool it was gay to dress the white the white boys do and totally uncool. Now look at what everybody is willing to do. Swag. She wants a gentleman not a thug. But you don't know what that means. I mean so what if I want to go school as in a college or university after high school and not do the same things that black people choose to do? Hang out daily on a porch, smoke a blunt, get high, call women out of their names, try to get five numbers of potential sex a day and by night in the streets toking their gun meaning holding their heat in their jeans. Naw no lie truth told that's not me I got a son to feed and future to provide. I'm working a 9-5 and attending college online, living at home with mom so you know I am all about doing right my whole life long. Or even this which is the killer of it all, wear my pants on my waist that they actually fit whether they be slim fit or skinny and be portrayed as gay! But by the way there's over a hundred black males sagging their pants in every neighborhood and don't know or do know if you do that in jail that considers and means your gay, yay?

 So how are we evolving? How are we solving problems? Fighting against each other saying just because I rep this gang I don't give a flying fuck about your brother I'll shoot that nugga! Really ? That's how you feel but you be the same one sharing sympathy when someone you know just got killed! Damn tell me how that feels? To know that your not real!? Your a puppet! Your a mask! Your a disguise your not even the person you was born to be cause you let everything bad but God get into your soul, heart, life and mind. You didn't even give it a try! Or a fight! You saw it was dead and didn't even give it life! But you had the option to make it breath forever with faith and hope, now that's no joke. But yet still you'll laugh, find it comical and unstylish when in all common reality, I wonder what it's like being white, cause I am going to be black my whole life. 

Paris White ~ Love Success ~ SevenStarGV

Nothing is Perfect

People that try to WANT everything perfect in life and when it doesn't become perfect, actually live a more stressful life. They live how a millionaire thinks when it comes to losing their lifestyle. So really all they are doing is continuously asking for MISTAKES to happen. How? Because in their mind this is what they are thinking. 

I don't want this (whatever this may be) I want that to be (whatever that may be) <👈this is the battle going on in their head🙉driving them nuts! The sad thing is they think like this all day long. Utterly just confusing the universe on what they want. 

One thing is certain is that life is life. When others are involved in your life there are going to be some factors that eventually take place that won't make life perfect. So on that note my friends and viewers I say to you this.

LIVE LIFE DAY BY DAY. There maybe be some things that repeat, there may be some things that do occur, although you are not perfect, neither am I , nor the next man, nor the next woman or either gender older or younger than you. Items, things that we use are not even perfect. Completely think of what you want, believe in it, take action in it and if someone else must take action for it to happen, BE PATIENT! We all have our own time life schedules.

Worldwide Business Opportunity

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Life

No matter what life has got to be one of the most difficult and inadequate things that we have to face on this earth. People are given this purpose to believe that they are fairly compatible of having a chance and then they forget that they weren’t taught the proper way to live life. Why is this because simply said we don’t teach it to everybody, as we should do so. Rich and poor people are always going to be different no matter the purpose or the cause you can try and try and try and try and try and try and try and try and try and try and try! As much as you want to be able to get out of the poor factor cycle but fact is that there is one way to do that. That way is thru business ownership and investments. Don’t let anyone tell you any different because they would be just telling you a lie to make you believe that you are going to be ok in life. That is not the real and right way or purpose of them doing that. It may not even be there fault nobody simply taught them exactly how to do this that is what the wrong is here. So no it’s not their fault it’s society’s fault. Because most rich people won’t take the time to invest into poor people for the simple fact and way that they learn and or taught. It’s like trying to pop a pimple with your mind, simply said your thoughts. It just becomes fat to frustrating until they really begin to understand what they have gotten themselves into.

                                                                         I look at certain individuals and unfortunately I judge people sometimes though I shouldn’t be doing so at all I do. That’s just simple human nature that we are going to judge people. It’s a way of knowing what we want out of them or what they can give us or what we can give them. It’s easy to simplify things thru a simple conversations wouldn’t you say? Of course it is and that’s why most individuals never learn these things. The rich don’t talk to the poor unless they are doing something for them. They know nothing about being poor and they know nothing about being rich. It’s a constant continuous argument waiting to happen, that both people rather avoid, sadly. I have this belief about Jesus. I believe that Jesus is here on earth and he’s not just one person he is one of many people. There are certain individuals that are picked to be Jesus. Because they are so humble and will walk across any land to make this world a better place. Simply said they are at one with themselves and could care less who is doing what unless it is of good. They are calmly spoken and may not ever even speak to you verbally. But mentally they have a power that can exceed and bring your mind to limits that they need to be. Because that is their job of what they are to do, no if’s, ands or buts about it! They may just walk up to you and give you money, they might just sit down next to you in a coffee shop, they might just be sitting anywhere and look like a bum or poor or dirty. But guess what that dirty, poor old looking bum you just judged or made fun of just helped you to continue living within your life. Those that hear God are of God’s children and won’t ever be denied of God’s wisdom.

            Respect life and respect everyone around you. I literally had a guy sit next to me and the first thing I thought to myself was how he looked like he had no home and I dislike when I think like that, because I’m staying at home with my mom ya know. The next thought to myself was man I wish he knew about business ownership. The next thought I had was that when I realized I couldn’t show him the plan because I was judging him that he didn’t work! Then I started thinking to myself there have got to be a better way! How is there a way that we can be able to get everybody on the same exact path or at least create some form of a cycle where once you learn about jobs you start to learn about business ownership and investments, then you’ll never go broke again. Everyone on this earth needs to know about these factors. You can have a great high end paying job but if you can’t realize or see that you’ll eventually just end up broke thinking your rich and set for life, well prepare a way to not go broke, that’s the key to life, you can do it!

Paris White ~ Love Success

You can think about it your entire life, or slowly take action towards it.

Alcohol Love

Alcohol Love

            I remember when I had hit an age thinking, “Yes I can finally do everything that I wanted to do”. Turning 21 of course is and was everyone’s dream age until they turn, 22, 23, 24, 25 and so on. Turning 21 should not be idolized or categorized as the age I can finally go into bars and drink, but sadly it is. The age, 21, should be looked as an age of better evolving yourself. When I personally turned 21 I don’t remember much of it due to the fact I was doing so much. I think I did more buying alcohol and drinking at the age 22. Now I’m currently 24 turning 25 and ready to take my career to the max by finishing my long-term goals. Every time I’m in a bar, which most of the times is the One Ten located on Smithfield Street in Pittsburgh, PA. The bartender never brings me a drink unless it’s water with ice and a lemon. Drinking alcohol is not what I care about continuously doing; I mean I drink but I don’t worship my life & my weekends into going out and getting drunk. It’s honestly unhealthily, not of God and for the most part I can do much better productive effort with my time.

                                                Love, you know so many people fear to trust this word love. What’s baffling is that God is love so why is it that it is a fearing word? Well God is fearing, but that’s not the reason why. People lie in the strength of misusing the word to gain an advantage over peoples hearts and minds. Before I knew what this word truly meant I never misused it and had to witness for myself what exactly it meant. As far as living in the words of God you can trust his form of love, because he will do everything that you put into mind for you. Especially when you speak to him spiritually about what it is that you want to happen for you. The main key about this is trust his timing, he has a lot of obstacles and tasks himself that he has to complete in order to get what you asked him for to the end of the maze for you. Plus he’s not just catering to you he’s catering to his believers, children and even the non-believers.

                                                            The reason I bring these two topics up is that I see more women getting lost in love and thinking they are in love from alcohol. I also see more men using the word love as an advantage when they go out to drink to gain advantage over women. Merged together it forms what I like to call Toxic. These two should not, I repeat not be mixed together unless you are literally married to the person your doing both with. That’s the honest truth in my opinion. Although most individuals that are just now turning 21 or about to be really are clueless what to do at the age 21. I mean heck I was all I knew was that I wanted to be working and be in school doing something productive. Once I turned 22 I remember I was taking a walk around my old neighborhood I made a vow to myself. By the time I turned 25 I had to have a career no matter what it was I had to be doing so. Now I’m an undergrad, a business owner and on my way to more success. I just wanted to give a note of love out to those that drink to not mix the word love and alcohol together, it’s 2013 control you. Kudos.

“ You can live to live or forget what you’re living for”

Paris White ~ Love Success