Showing posts with label communication. Show all posts
Showing posts with label communication. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

"The Give UP"

Things I've given up for my success: Ready?

No phone bill, I use wifi this way I'll be able to be more productive while on the go. Yes, you might see me on the phone out and about but guess what? I don't walk around with wifi so what am I doing really?

In 2007-2008 I stop watching TV because I noticed that's all people talk about. The average a mercian will sit all day in front of the TV if they don't have to go to work, clean or cook.

I use to be in an environment of individuals that, all they did was smoke, talk about people, lie behind each others backs, judge people, hate people, just a bunch of pessimistic stuff. None of them really believed that, I wanted to go to school, learn and, really make movies. They laughed at the fact, that, I said it when I did, well not all of them.

I gave up going out to parties, clubs, events, etc. Why cause, while those individuals that, have the greater or as equal potential as me were there I was at home working, or socializing about my future in school. Which, resulted in my being able to have more ample productive and research time to myself.

I gave up on those individuals who were more concerned with being popular instead of building connections in higher places for better reasons. What I was really doing was giving up on people that, beguiled and didn't believe in me.

I gave up chances of actually having a girlfriend because I knew that, will slow my time down if she's not already steady minded and, as focused as I was.

I gave up time that I can never get back and, wish I could have back.

I gave myself to God most important.

I gave up being around people that, used, manipulated, and discouraged me or others.

I gave up hearing those around me as I went on through my day, not wanting to hear all of the multiple things, that, can clog and, help slowly mush one's mind. I replaced them with headphones.

I gave up on those that, discreetly gave up on themselves.

I gave up smoking weed cause it could have been me dead too.

I gave up things that, didn't matter to my spirit for things that, meant everything to my spirit, mind, soul and, body.

Why?

Because these were choices that, I made that, were holding me back from reaching and, gaining success. I'm on my way to top! Know That!

Ask yourself: What's holding you back from success? Yeah I know you think you've reached success but have you really? Ask yourself that, and comment. Bless bismillah.

Monday, March 3, 2014

Significance & Security (S&S)

One of the coolest things I've got to learn about Michelle Obama and Barack Obama is when he explained about their first date. With such swagger he talked about how he picked her up or I think she may have been saying it lol. But how he picked her up on their first date, he's car i think had a hole somewhere in the bottom it was rusty etc. But the point is that, it was about the finical state they were both in, it was about the love they both carried & gave each other. I mean seriously yet we are unsure of what they truly go through in life together, as all true relationships are to be confided within one another. But from the start, middle, to still going, they way they dress, symbolize their kids, themselves and, touch grounds on society now, but the younger generation at the most. Why? Because they know the truth. My generation is the truth, the generations below us are the truth, my child his generation is the truth, their daughters are the truth of the future.

 They've already set their grounds, made their goals attainable, focused on what needs to be done, I think it's much rather cool how they're more focused on the younger generation. The first Presidency I've seen or witness or heard of mainly doing so. From attacking what, us as individuals are going through in our college, adults years, even high school are going through job wise increasing private sector jobs. Yeah they're private sector but yes, they're suppose to be challenging to push you to go to college, get that, degree and innovate through life what God he blessed you with to do. So yes discerningly speaking a person, that, thinks that, this is going to be easy to make money or get a job needs to realize it's going to be tough! But all you have to do is work smart.

Now look at them both, their level of significance and security. Is that, not what a man and woman want? Now not every man or woman will make it to be President and First Lady but I mean there a ways to give each other both this. I mean the first thing it starts with is Love and that's it. How the rest occurs really becomes up to you two. Remember that, as men and women coming from not very wealthy families, going to college, graduating, having kids, being individuals it's a both way street of empathy. You have to embrace this within one another. Be patient and, really think, "how will we do this because i know it will be done?"

Now just take a second, and, ask yourself, 3 years ago what were you doing? If you see the same results from three years ago you see now, it's time to upgrade them and understand yourself a little bit more. I've had people tell me "Paris your post are so long." You know what my honest to God answer in my mind is to these people who are far to lazy to take 10 minutes out of their day to get the message is? I really don't care what you think because you're obviously telling me your not ready to learn more about life. Your content with doing wrong, not educating yourself, learning what's best for you and most important, learning what someone from your generation knows that, you have no idea about. What is Facebook to you? For some it's a party, a way to express idiocy, for me it's entertaining and a way to quickly but vastly speak my mind when no one is around to listen. You ought to use it for the same thing, but in your own good professing creative way. How do you think I am still climbing to the top over the top? Because I am willing to do it the right way.



So remember something, it's not you forgot about the people you grew up or hung with in life. It's not about the fact you're not able to be with your actual friends a little more. it's about your future, your future family, you, the future generations to come and, most important that, you've left behind those that, CHOSE to stay behind being content with their lives. While you on the other hand, put in possible blood, a whole lot of sweat, held back tears, worked through frustration to realize what you want and need is more important than those that, chose not to climb up with you, thinking they'd just leach off of you.

#LoveSuccess ~ #ParisDWhite ~ #SevenStarGV

Sunday, March 31, 2013

Living Over Various Exceptions (Code:Love)

L.O.V.E ( Living Over Various Exceptions )

Your last time of doing this you thought to yourself, "what's the point of doing this"? Then you gave yourself the answer, love. Every time you think you are in love, it back fires, so what makes it a go this time? Of course, love. Face the fact its exactly what you dreamed for, wished on, thought about hour after hour, even tried telling yourself this is not real, it's okay, go ahead with a deep sigh, it's love.

David from in the bible said to Mary that man can love many different women in many different ways, what he didn't say was that it takes just one woman to fully understand what living over various exceptions really is.

Women are rare so they act rare, they are different so they act different, they are women we are men, always remember that. We live two different ways wanting the same thing, love. Acceptance, vulnerability with a level of trust and unconditional healing. Simply knowing that your partner can know everything about you, use against you and not cause pain, true friendship on a high level of compassionate sensibility.

Communication is one if the biggest thing that comes with love. One of the things about love is having the fact be known that you both can talk about every and anything with each other. So that might be much more then love, I call that respectful rarity. We all have thoughts, we all can get lonely with our thoughts, we all deserve someone to share those thoughts with. Sometimes a thought can be expressed thru action, which can result into cuddling, sex, playing, laughter, games, cooking, sleeping, comforting, or buying each other things, which all leads around to showing, which always leads to talking.


We're only humans, we know what we deserve and also what we want. Majority of the time we just want a partner that can be compassionate, passion able, heart warming, concern active to what we're doing in life, helpful supporting our dream(s) or simply believing it, someone that is just about the same as you but of course can be your ying or yang. You've questioned your actions, forced out different choices, managed to keep things going, given your blessings and wishes towards it, wanting what? Guess again, yes it's love. You couldn't believe it at first, said it was a phase, figured you were just caught in a daze but Heyyyyy, it's love. Love controls us we don't control love that's why it's, love. You may get surprised, overwhelmed and unsure at various different times which means you may even get told that its all over love. Majority of the time you can fight it as much as you want to, test it out but fact is that it's, love. Anytime you look forward to love it sometimes upsets you, isn't true, the person is a liar, breaks your heart, well that's not love, unfortunately we end up learning that. Finding real love takes patience, devotion and taking it slow.

One thing about love is that we eventually understand that two people love us regardless of anything. Ourselves and God that's it, at least until its fully clarified who loves Us so that we can be able to love them. I use to remember hearing when I was a couple years younger guys telling chicks they love them just for sex. That was the most immature trait I've ever personally witnessed, not to mention weak and cowardly to take advantage of a woman's heart & emotions like that. I also learned more of is that i was looking for love in the wrong places and the wrong ways. The more I tried to find and search for love the more I just ended up looking. This is when I completely stopped, went into a deeper search within myself, started getting my life back on track, made much better choices, stopped chasing after women, getting various different numbers and grew up for a change.

I was tired of belittling myself for such high standards I thought I was goal fully getting. I was tired of being unable to know what love really was. Then it happened again about three more times so I knew I wasn't in love. But then it happened again it felt so right. I knew exactly what qualities I had picked up in my bag and was more then ready to deliver with her. Fact still remained I had a lot more learning to do and slowing down to be. So I went back to my resources, "male by birth man by choice", that book had helped me a lot, mentally. It showed me how to better respect myself and my future partner rightfully and sexy. Now I'm in my future, I'm taking my time, bettering my life, daily living over various exceptions of mines. Love is fair, love is even, love is in the air every season, love is witness, love is God, love is truth, love is easy, love is patient, love is waiting on you to make it, love. Plus it's been in me for to long waiting in the form of the perfect well thought out demonstration, of the real deal, love!

Paris White ~ Love Success