Significance & Security (S&S)

One of the coolest things I've got to learn about Michelle Obama and Barack Obama is when he explained about their first date. With such swagger he talked about how he picked her up or I think she may have been saying it lol. But how he picked her up on their first date, he's car i think had a hole somewhere in the bottom it was rusty etc. But the point is that, it was about the finical state they were both in, it was about the love they both carried & gave each other. I mean seriously yet we are unsure of what they truly go through in life together, as all true relationships are to be confided within one another. But from the start, middle, to still going, they way they dress, symbolize their kids, themselves and, touch grounds on society now, but the younger generation at the most. Why? Because they know the truth. My generation is the truth, the generations below us are the truth, my child his generation is the truth, their daughters are the truth of the future.

 They've already set their grounds, made their goals attainable, focused on what needs to be done, I think it's much rather cool how they're more focused on the younger generation. The first Presidency I've seen or witness or heard of mainly doing so. From attacking what, us as individuals are going through in our college, adults years, even high school are going through job wise increasing private sector jobs. Yeah they're private sector but yes, they're suppose to be challenging to push you to go to college, get that, degree and innovate through life what God he blessed you with to do. So yes discerningly speaking a person, that, thinks that, this is going to be easy to make money or get a job needs to realize it's going to be tough! But all you have to do is work smart.

Now look at them both, their level of significance and security. Is that, not what a man and woman want? Now not every man or woman will make it to be President and First Lady but I mean there a ways to give each other both this. I mean the first thing it starts with is Love and that's it. How the rest occurs really becomes up to you two. Remember that, as men and women coming from not very wealthy families, going to college, graduating, having kids, being individuals it's a both way street of empathy. You have to embrace this within one another. Be patient and, really think, "how will we do this because i know it will be done?"

Now just take a second, and, ask yourself, 3 years ago what were you doing? If you see the same results from three years ago you see now, it's time to upgrade them and understand yourself a little bit more. I've had people tell me "Paris your post are so long." You know what my honest to God answer in my mind is to these people who are far to lazy to take 10 minutes out of their day to get the message is? I really don't care what you think because you're obviously telling me your not ready to learn more about life. Your content with doing wrong, not educating yourself, learning what's best for you and most important, learning what someone from your generation knows that, you have no idea about. What is Facebook to you? For some it's a party, a way to express idiocy, for me it's entertaining and a way to quickly but vastly speak my mind when no one is around to listen. You ought to use it for the same thing, but in your own good professing creative way. How do you think I am still climbing to the top over the top? Because I am willing to do it the right way.



So remember something, it's not you forgot about the people you grew up or hung with in life. It's not about the fact you're not able to be with your actual friends a little more. it's about your future, your future family, you, the future generations to come and, most important that, you've left behind those that, CHOSE to stay behind being content with their lives. While you on the other hand, put in possible blood, a whole lot of sweat, held back tears, worked through frustration to realize what you want and need is more important than those that, chose not to climb up with you, thinking they'd just leach off of you.

#LoveSuccess ~ #ParisDWhite ~ #SevenStarGV

Alcohol Love

Alcohol Love

            I remember when I had hit an age thinking, “Yes I can finally do everything that I wanted to do”. Turning 21 of course is and was everyone’s dream age until they turn, 22, 23, 24, 25 and so on. Turning 21 should not be idolized or categorized as the age I can finally go into bars and drink, but sadly it is. The age, 21, should be looked as an age of better evolving yourself. When I personally turned 21 I don’t remember much of it due to the fact I was doing so much. I think I did more buying alcohol and drinking at the age 22. Now I’m currently 24 turning 25 and ready to take my career to the max by finishing my long-term goals. Every time I’m in a bar, which most of the times is the One Ten located on Smithfield Street in Pittsburgh, PA. The bartender never brings me a drink unless it’s water with ice and a lemon. Drinking alcohol is not what I care about continuously doing; I mean I drink but I don’t worship my life & my weekends into going out and getting drunk. It’s honestly unhealthily, not of God and for the most part I can do much better productive effort with my time.

                                                Love, you know so many people fear to trust this word love. What’s baffling is that God is love so why is it that it is a fearing word? Well God is fearing, but that’s not the reason why. People lie in the strength of misusing the word to gain an advantage over peoples hearts and minds. Before I knew what this word truly meant I never misused it and had to witness for myself what exactly it meant. As far as living in the words of God you can trust his form of love, because he will do everything that you put into mind for you. Especially when you speak to him spiritually about what it is that you want to happen for you. The main key about this is trust his timing, he has a lot of obstacles and tasks himself that he has to complete in order to get what you asked him for to the end of the maze for you. Plus he’s not just catering to you he’s catering to his believers, children and even the non-believers.

                                                            The reason I bring these two topics up is that I see more women getting lost in love and thinking they are in love from alcohol. I also see more men using the word love as an advantage when they go out to drink to gain advantage over women. Merged together it forms what I like to call Toxic. These two should not, I repeat not be mixed together unless you are literally married to the person your doing both with. That’s the honest truth in my opinion. Although most individuals that are just now turning 21 or about to be really are clueless what to do at the age 21. I mean heck I was all I knew was that I wanted to be working and be in school doing something productive. Once I turned 22 I remember I was taking a walk around my old neighborhood I made a vow to myself. By the time I turned 25 I had to have a career no matter what it was I had to be doing so. Now I’m an undergrad, a business owner and on my way to more success. I just wanted to give a note of love out to those that drink to not mix the word love and alcohol together, it’s 2013 control you. Kudos.

“ You can live to live or forget what you’re living for”

Paris White ~ Love Success